COUNSELLING & COACHING
I want to begin by asking some questions for you to reflect on…
- Are you really hard on yourself?
- Do you constantly feel like you’re not good enough?
- Are you tired of hiding who you really are in fear of rejection?
- Are you a sensitive person and often find yourself emotionally overwhelmed by the world?
- Are you unsure how to deal with times of loneliness in a constructive manner?
- Would you like to finally be free of the fear of judgement and develop more self-worth?
- Would you like to learn how to stop people pleasing and caretaking others needs while yours get neglected?
- Would you like to overcome the fear of intimacy and develop the skills necessary to share your authentic self?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you are likely a great fit to engage in coaching or counselling with me.
I have spent the last 18 years working in Mental Health & Addiction Counselling and Intuitive Life and Spiritual Coaching, where I guide people on their psychological and spiritual journey through life.
I am a highly attuned and intuitive practitioner who uses intuition in coaching/counselling. I am empathic and clairsentient by nature, and these gifts are helpful in the coaching/counselling process as I can attune to what is going on in your emotional world within minutes of meeting you.
With the invaluable information I access in this way, I can help you to develop constructive, sustainable, and holistic ways of relating to yourself. With a stronger relationship with yourself, you will learn to derive more joy from your interactions and relationships with others. We will use our therapeutic relationship as an example of what you can experience and express when you feel safe and inspired to be your authentic self.
I want to begin by asking some questions for you to reflect on…
- Are you really hard on yourself?
- Do you constantly feel like you’re not good enough?
- Are you tired of hiding who you really are in fear of rejection?
- Are you a sensitive person who often finds yourself emotionally overwhelmed by the world?
- Are you unsure how to deal with times of loneliness in a constructive manner?
- Would you like to finally be free of the fear of judgment and develop more self-worth?
- Would you like to learn how to stop people pleasing and caretaking others’ needs while your own get neglected?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you are likely a great fit to engage in coaching or counselling with me.
I have spent the last 18 years working in the fields of Mental Health & Addiction Counselling and Intuitive Life and Spiritual Coaching, where I guide people on their psychological and spiritual journey through life.
I am a highly attuned and intuitive practitioner, using my intuition in my coaching/counselling. I am empathic and clairsentient by nature, which is helpful in the coaching/counselling process, as I can attune to what is going on in your emotional world within minutes of meeting you.
With the invaluable information I access in this way, I can help you to develop constructive, sustainable and holistic ways of relating to yourself. With a stronger relationship with yourself, you will learn to derive more joy from your interactions and relationships with others. We will use our therapeutic relationship as an example of what is possible for you to experience and express when you feel safe and inspired to be your authentic self.

Inspired to Be Authentic is a mission I have purposefully created.
Through my content and coaching/counselling, I inspire you to share more of your truth with the world. I do this by teaching you life-changing skills, sharing valuable resources, and offering empathic healing through emotional presence.
I specialize in working with gay men and highly sensitive people (HSP) to develop a stronger sense of self-worth. My areas of expertise include teaching people how to heal, enabling them to embody their authentic selves and feel more empowered and secure in their relationships.
My vision for humanity is for us to live with more courage, share ourselves authentically, and enjoy greater intimacy and connection.
The transformations I specialize in:
Healing toxic shame, complex trauma, and disorganized attachment
Developing self-worth
Learn how to establish deeper connections and end your cycles of loneliness
Help you get unstuck from the grief of your past so you can be more present in your life
Learn how to stop people pleasing and abandoning yourself for the approval of others
Reclaim your power from the grip of codependency and learn how to feel empowered in your sense of self
Learn how to get out of your head and stop overthinking so you can live more from the heart
Overcome performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction
Healing insecure attachment so you can have more security in your relationships
If you’re looking to experience greater comfort in your own skin, healthier relationships, inner peace, worthiness, alignment, authenticity, and joy, my Counselling/Coaching could be a great fit for you.
What is the difference between coaching and counselling?
While there are many similarities between coaching and counselling, there are some differences that are important to note:
Coaching is a guided, transformative process that involves discovering who you are and empowering you towards who you want to become.
Counselling is a guided therapeutic process that involves healing and recovering from the past, allowing you to live more in the present.
*I am qualified to do both coaching and counselling, and I often use both modalities in sessions with clients.
You can learn more about my qualifications here
How do we get started?
We begin with a consultation where you can share your story with me, and we will explore what is getting in the way of your happiness. The call is designed to help us get to know each other better and discover what our coaching/counselling relationship will feel like.
I will explain how my services work and provide you with a professional recommendation on how we can help you feel great about yourself again. You will leave the call feeling inspired, motivated, and clear about what exactly you need to do to break through your transformation.
*All Coaching/Counselling sessions are done via Zoom video chat

1 x 30 minute Counselling/Coaching Consultation
Investment: $100 USD

1 x 50 minute Counselling/Coaching Session
Investment: $200 USD

1 x 75 minute Counselling/Coaching Session
Investment: $300 USD

1 x 45 minute Couples Counselling/Coaching Consultation
Investment: $125 USD

1 x 50 minute Couples Counselling/Coaching Session
Investment: $225 USD

1 x 75 minute Couples Counselling/Coaching Session
Investment: $325 USD
Group Coaching
*Due to the high demand for my private coaching and counselling services, I have created group coaching programs that run for 9 weeks (Authentic Relating & Empowerment). This is an excellent option if you are on my waitlist but want to move forward on your healing and empowerment journey.

Authentic Relating & Empowerment for Secure Attachment
Investment: $543 USD
Learn how to heal insecure attachment and become secure in your relationships.
In this 9-week group program, you will learn how to heal your relationship with yourself to feel empowered in your relationships with others. Each workshop will bring you closer to becoming more secure in your attachment style by teaching you life-changing skills and facilitating healing connections with like-minded people.

Authentic Relating & Empowerment for Gay Men
Investment: $543 USD
Learn how to heal and empower yourself so you can thrive as a gay man.
In this 9-week group program, you will learn how to heal your relationship with yourself to feel empowered in your relationships with others. Through teaching you life-changing skills and facilitating healing connections with like-minded gay men, each workshop will bring you closer to becoming the confident gay man you deserve to be.

Authentic Relating & Empowerment for Highly Sensitive People
Investment: $543 USD
Learn how to heal and empower yourself to thrive as a Highly Sensitive Person.
In this 9-week group program, you will learn how to heal your relationship with yourself to feel empowered in your relationships with others. Through teaching you life-changing skills and facilitating healing connections with like-hearted, sensitive people, each workshop will bring you closer to becoming the confident person you deserve to be.
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Benoit
Therapeutic Counsellor & Spiritual Guide
Benoit is an addictions and trauma therapist, using visualization, parts work, psychodrama, music, and movement therapies to build a sense of familiarity with his clients’ experiences of life and all its dimensions.
I’ve considered my childhood as being relatively uneventful when it comes to adverse or traumatic events. But holding this perspective does not prove it to be true, as I later learned through my counselling education. I started to notice that I was hiding in order to keep myself feeling safe. I had developed co-dependent strategies, putting others’ needs ahead of my own. I didn’t know that these survival strategies were symptoms of deeper spiritual pains. I lost track of my own vision, desires, passion and creativity. I felt disconnected from life, empty and heartless, lost and confused, especially when I was alone. I couldn’t feel my emotions, deemed myself uncreative, I developed social anxiety and deep insecurities of being unwanted and even dangerous to others. These beliefs kept me focused on being a “good boy” as I buried myself in video game addiction and overextending in relationships. Having absolutely no self-confidence, I followed the status quo with my head down, not wanting to rock the boat.
I felt stuck, which is when I started asking myself lots of questions! Why do I operate in this manner? What am I keeping myself safe from? Where does my power lie within me? Who is in control of my choices and actions?
The insights I’ve gained from following my curiosities over the years have led me to learn to trust myself and to feel more empowered, confident and patient. I literally became the hero of my own imaginative adventure! I learned to access more courage and clarity to move through adversity, thus healing deeper layers of my being. The modalities I use continually remind me to listen closely and to be honest and gentle; to see my life situations from different perspectives and to challenge my conditioned beliefs.
I especially noticed a change ever since I started living a more spiritual life. In practical terms, this means that I now choose to acknowledge that I am in relationship with all beings. This perspective allows me to draw insights and inspiration from many sources around me – as I learn to honor my inner experience in any given moment. I came to trust my own intuition! This allows me to find meaning and wonder in the events that unfold before me and makes it easier for me to PLAY with life and find creative ways to engage with my challenges.
I have since reconnected with my creative expression through movement, music, dance and play! Having studied and worked with animals, children and adults with diverse needs, I have learned more subtle forms of communication through energetics and body language. My therapeutic counselling training and experience as a teacher in the Waldorf environment provide me with a wholistic and spiritual outlook that will support you and your many facets, encouraging you to express yourself authentically.
I am here to support those who are ready to get to know themselves more deeply and honestly. I believe that it is beneficial to share our unique perspectives and gifts with one another. In order to do so effectively, we must learn to acknowledge the spiritual nature of our existence and to live in integrity with that understanding. This requires us to take an honest look at our inner landscape, to witness and accept every aspect we encounter and to take responsibility for our healing by effecting positive changes in our lives. This is applied shadow work! I am here to guide those who are ready to incorporate this self-healing practice in their lives; those willing to find clarity and illuminate the shadows that block them from living in integrity with their values; clarify your talk and walk it with confidence!
My goal is to help you find strategies to come back to your essential nature; to light the way to your center and fall in love more and more deeply with yourself as you explore life. When we love ourselves, we naturally take care of our needs and assert healthy boundaries. I will help you to stand strong in the face of challenges that arise so that you can meet the world courageously and feel fulfilled in doing so. All within the lens of compassionate curiosity, allowing everything we encounter to be an opportunity to evolve and offer more love to the world. It is an honor to walk alongside you on your journey!
What you can expect in working with me:
First, it is important to build trust in the container we will hold together, encouraging you to be clear about your goals and empowering you to access your innate healing intelligence. I am simply here to assist you on your healing journey. With this trusting presence, we can take an honest look at the patterns in your life and take a mindful approach at shifting the perspective. I will help you recognize that you have the power to respond to the experiences life provides with confidence and courage.
We will practice becoming familiar with the various states of your psyche, building resilience towards unpleasant sensations, emotions and feelings. We will practice connecting to the wisdom of your body, mind and soul. We will foster loving relationships with the various aspects of your inner world as well as with all other beings (animate and inanimate) in your life.
Life is an epic journey and I will help you find the joy in the mystery of it all!

Shay
Men’s Coach
Shay helps men fix bedroom challenges. He specializes in helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety, erection problems & sexual communication blocks. So that you can feel normal again & have intimacy without awkwardness.
On the surface, I had it all together…
A successful 12 year career in financial services, followed by starting my own consulting company.
I worked hard & success came.
A nice car, big salary, my own apartment in London, a comfortable relationship.
At the same time,
I experienced intense levels of stress and pressure (often self imposed) to perform in business & in the bedroom.
A mix of porn, hookups & apps became my way to escape.
I was totally unaware of how this was causing destruction in my life.
I thought it was normal. Everyone does this right?
In reality, I was ruining my relationship.
A pass or fail in order to feel good enough.
I quit my corporate job and took time out and travel the world.
Peru to China, Tibet to India, Ethiopia to Malawi and many places in between.
It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Performance Anxiety became even more intense.
Multiple experiences didn’t go to plan, my relationship ended.
And I felt like less of a man.
I was asking myself “Can I be fixed, am I broken, what if it happens again?”
I wanted to feel confident in the bedroom again.
Mainly out of frustration, feeling like I wasn’t matching my potential.
In life, In business and in the bedroom.
I wanted to tell them I was struggling with performance anxiety.
I wanted to say that I felt lost.
Though for so long I felt embarrassed, so I didn’t say anything.
That I finally built up the courage to say the words…
“I feel angry and I don’t know why.”
The coach guided me through an exercise, and I burst into tears.
How it was spilling over into so many other areas of my life.
My self esteem was through the floor and I had no idea.
1 – To find the tools to fix this for myself
2 – To help other men do the same
Everything changed from that moment on.
It was the beginning of me actually opening up about this.
After working with & studying under some of the very best mindset coaches & educators in the world…
Including Tony Robbins, Annie Lalla, Marissa Peer, Esther Perel, Emily Nagoski, Eben Pagan, Anand Rao & Dean Graziosi…
I learnt the tools I needed, to fix performance anxiety & transform my relationship with intimacy, so that I could actually enjoy it! (Instead of it feeling like a test).
The good news – this doesn’t take years.
If what you’ve read feels relatable,
You’re not alone.
